Question about this subject, I brought up knowing about the OW last Saturday, when I first found out. like I said he denied it and may think he has me fooled. Do I continue bringing up OW so he is aware I dont believe his crap, or do I not bring it up at all? Im thinking I dont bring it up at all, as I am not supposed to be worrying about her. Just curious if I let him think hes got me fooled or what.
He brought up how he was supposed to go out of town this weekend with some friends (he named one of the friends, its the group of friends I dont know well, but since he has talked about them before I know who they are. I assume OW would be involved since she is in that group of bar rats) and he said he decided not to so he can save money and get some work done around our house. (which he calls my house now) I wanted to say to him "Oh fun, you and your girl were going to go somewhere IVE ALWAYS SAID I WANTED TO GO." But instead I stayed quiet and just said oh cool.
Thanks in advance!
Do not bring her up. It will get you no where. He might argue with you but that doesn't get you anywhere, and hurts your cause because at its root it is pressure.
Just let it lie. He knows you aren't dumb.
Last edited by Steve85; 09/19/1804:55 PM.
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