Amazing story. And so appropriate for so many on this board trying to hold on to their spouse for dear life.
Really what John did was realize that he and Mary would never be happy together if half her heart was elsewhere. And that Bob would always be a presence, if not physically then in thought, in his and Mary's relationship.
Let her go...to get her back. Doesn't always work, but is much more effective then holding on for dear life.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018