thanks nef. that’s the thing i don’t fuel the fire. WW does it herself. When WW doesn’t come home and D13 asks if she is, of course i won’t lie to her. I always try my best to steer D13’s mind off the negativity, but it’s the elephant in the room. I cant help if she asks questions why WW is like this or like that. Just trying to be honest and strong in front of her.