So like clockwork after he left the house with his tail between his legs last night, he sent me an email this morning talking about divorce papers and the whole email made no sense. Lots of "I'm sorry" and the whole thing just sounds like he doesn't want to do it yet he included the paperwork for me to look over before we go over anything final. He even mentioned how he didn't talk to me in person over all of this to spare emotions.

It's just insane, he never once talked to me about any of the paperwork and info regarding plans for our son and home and whatnot yet says he did it all to spare our emotions. I'm at a loss for words.

I replied back telling him that not once has he talked to me in person about any of this other to say he's done and run off quickly in April. I told him we need to communicate for our son because we will be still talking to each other as we raise him for many more years to come, he can't just run and hide and not talk to me. There is no communication at all from him, he just hangs his head in shame and hides yet on the phone he's chattier to me. I just have no words.


Together for 13 years, married for 8.
H is 46
I'm 40
S is 6
Bombdrop in April 2018
Still in limbo as of 2019