Nic, you have so much patience. 3.5 years is a long time and WH seems to still be in his own la la land. Kudos to you for standing up for so long, I am already drained at 7 months, there are times I feel if he just went away from our lives for good it will be so much easier. Find happiness where you are and in who you are, rest will all just fall into place one day. (((Nicole)))
