Husband cheated, left, trying to DB

[SteveLW]

Kech, here is the thing. He is moody because his life suchs right now. So he is going to swing emotionally. Being surly and mean was getting him no where. He probably took note of that and decided a different approach. Or he was pleasant because he wanted to find out if you had told your family.

I wrote a post two days ago in someone else's thread (I'll try to find it) on why it is best NOT to tell anyone about your sitch (meaning anyone that you both know). So I think you handled this properly.

Also, I am sure the "pay off my own truck and get my own place" thing was bait, to see how'd you'd react. You did pretty well. though I agree saying that about an OW was probably the wrong thing. Even if he lives separate from her doesn't mean she won't be there most of the time, especially when he'd have the baby there. So it is kind of a fruitless fight to have. If and when that time comes, I am sorry to tell you, there will be little you can do about any of that anyway. Unless the OW is a convicted child molester there isn't much you can say even if he did live with her.

Well done overall.