Is there hope? I have a WW

[LANE777]

good evening..Journaling
Well its been a few days since Ive logged anything. Im still plugging away day by day. My WW is still doing her thing.
She did tell me that her OM does not want to be more than just friends. And that he is a great friend and a big part of her life. That kinda of hurt, but she just doesn't get it. I know he doesn't want a serious relationship with some with major baggage. Its seems she is hanging on for dear life though. I just SMH at this. Its got to be the fantasy fog. Her health is starting to go a little more. She said that her friend OM is going to be there to support her and that she doesn't know how its going to work with me around. I just validated and said thats fine and I understand.
Today I met her for a few minutes at the gas station to fill our daughters car etc. She seems very very stressed out and doesn't smile or anything, very irritable.Like maybe things aren't going her way attitude. I asked her if theres anything wrong and she said "no I'm doing great"..I just said ok and left it at that.
I thought wrong when we were actually starting to talk a little. I thought maybe I was making a little progress and making some sort of connection. I just learned that she is just as far gone as she was a month ago still.

My daughter spent a little time with her yesterday and she says that she spends money like crazy. I know thats a sign of a MLC as well as WW. She hasn't hurt me at all financially except I'm paying all the bills here where I live while she lives for free at her parents. That will change next month when she moves into our rental house. We shall see.

As far as me GAL. I went out with some friends last weekend. Do a lot with my kids and work way too much. I do worry about my W health and her well being. She knows I care and worry a lot but she doesn't want my love ATM. So I will keep my distance some more . The marathon continues. It is nice my 2 older kids stay with me and don't like bouncing back and forth. My 2 little ones are ok with it. I get them back tomorrow for a few days. Single dad can be okay sometimes but can be very lonely.
I may have set my self back a bit talking a little to much the last few days. Time to back off again and let things go again. I still have moments of grief and pain, but not as often. I have moments of happiness and then sadness. Its just the roller coaster ride from hell. I know I'm all over the place writing my thoughts so I will end it here.