That's right, you don't know what you can even do, because there is nothing you can do about it.
So what do you do? You just do you. You let him be himself, find himself, or go off the deep end. You have no control over it, and the more pressure you apply the quicker he jumps off the deep end.
I feel like you're progressing well.
H 34 W 29 BD 3/12/18 Divorce Busted Spring 19
It is not things that bother us, but the stories we tell ourselves about things.