Hoping this can be saved, but having doubts 3

[reframe]

So, my divorce should be final in a few days now. The soon to be ex wife just asked me if I wanted to get a bottle of wine and hang out this Friday, since it'll likely be our first day not being married.

I responded that I didn't think it was a cause for celebration, but mostly avoided the question.
I'm leaning toward saying no - since it still tends to mess with me emotionally when I spend time with her, and I've seen no evidence of her actually having the kind of growth that would be required for us to have something healthy (despite temp checks).

The offer is still messing with my head a bit though. So thoughts from you guys are welcome.