- House has been sold and I have a new apartment. Found a great one for a good price to rent right beside a big park so the kids love it. I have moved into the town about 35km away from EW. - I may be officially divorced but I haven't received anything from my lawyer even though he had used divorced wife in his correspondence. - EW is still a pain in the rear end, still trying to control my life almost 3 years later. I wouldn't like to see her lawyer bill.. - Changing lawyers as mine does not know what to do anymore. WIll be interviewing a few the next 2 weeks. - Everyone I know sees how great I am doing and how moving to my new apartment is such a good thing except for EW, she is complaining through her lawyer and causing me some difficulties with some of the paperwork parts of my move. - She is also trying to claim about 80% of the house sale when she has only put in about 20% of the mortgage the last 2 and a half years.
However, I am just living life, enjoying where I live since most of my social life is here.
I remember reading in a post by Sandi that a WW doesn't want to have consequences for their actions, well mine stated point blank in mediation that she shouldn't have consequences... and just for reality sake for any newcomers, this is 3 years after her affair started.