Good deal. I think it will be a relief after learning your rights.

Like you, I am pro-marriage. I do hope it works out for you and your H. Unfortunately, the only way to the other side of this hell, is through it.

At the moment, do not let him know that you are seeing a lawyer. Perhaps like what Steve has suggested when he gives you the papers and you let him know that you will get back to him after your lawyer reviews them. That will be a rude awakening.

Me:45 ExW:48
M:04/97
3 Bombs & 2 ReCons
1st BD 11/10
D Finalized 4/20
D-16 S-14
Going in one more round when you don't think you can. That's what makes all the difference in life.~Rocky Balboa