don't let yourself get into arguments with her. You are clearly too attached to her. Keep her at arm's length. And a late night phone convo b/c she's drunk? C'mon man, aren't you tired from all the fun you're having? You should be...
That would go so much further than anything else you're doing.
H 34 W 29 BD 3/12/18 Divorce Busted Spring 19
It is not things that bother us, but the stories we tell ourselves about things.