My story pt 2

[neffer]

She´s falling and you are not her parachute. She must face reality. Get out of her way.

[lost8]

do i even respond? How do I validate this?

[neffer]

You can´t follow her there lost. You need to stand for yourself, she must be responsible for her own actions. Avoid confronting her but you can´t validate that imho. Set some boundaries to protect yourself.

[lost8]

Got it, have not responded

[lost8]

Now the anger is coming....."you left me snowballing and didn't give a f***, I depise you, f*** you, you knew I was hurting and did nothing"

Sounds like a test to bait me back in....not biting.

[lost8]

Typical behavior after the weekend getaway to justify her guilt for being with OM?

[equalzr]

Let her return all the stuff shes buying.

[ovrrnbw]

She left you right? How is it your fault? Don't be mean or overly wordy in your response, but she can deal with her own actions and consequences.

A simple "that stinks" would be address her concerns. You aren't there to bail her out anymore.

Lost, can you put your sitch in your sign too, like mine?

[lost8]

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[SteveLW]

WAS/WS manufactured anger. Got to love it. Kind of like when you snoop, confront them with evidence, and they get angry that you snooped. ROFL Like snooping is worse than cheating.

lost8, good move on just letting this go. It is exactly what neffer said it was: HER OWN GUILT