The beginning of a long and painful journey

[Rawpain]

I just wanted to run something past you fine folk.

My W asked me to swap a day so that I have the kids on one of her days and she would have them on one of mine. I agreed.I was only going out on my bike and could do that another night. I didnt tell her this. Is this okay?

I dont know what she was doing and didnt ask. Our communication is pretty much non existent . The odd message here and there regarding kids. I keep it short and business like. Normally only a couple of words. She has asked me again to swap a day in a few months. Should I do this? I dont have anything on. It just will mean I have to get up earlier the next morning.

Another thing I would want to check. The other week she asked for my kids bike helmets as she has bought them new bikes. This was a lie as S had already told me OM had given them bikes from his kids. I decided to buy 2 new helmets for W house as I didnt want the inconvenience of the back and forth every time I wanted to take them out. This was 3 weeks ago and she hasnt even taken them out.

Another thing I did was spend quite a lot of money on clothes for the kids and split them between me and W. The problem I have is that they have all ended up at W house and Im just left with all the old clothes already.

I feel like im being bated into an argument. I havent said anything to W regarding this matter. Should I challenger on this?

I just want to clarify that I have paid for all this because I receiving all the benefits and I am not paying anything to her. Is it still NGS ? I just want my kids to have the things they need.

Any input would be greatly appreciated