Thank you again, I've been thinking a lot about your posts the last few days.
Ive been thinking about what you wrote about fear. It's an awful way to live allowing us to be controlled, manipulated, etc. What am I fearing in life and why?
Originally Posted by DnJ
FWIW, I believe that all our paths will eventually and inexorably lead to moving on, to dating someone new. I will clarify this a bit. Given enough time that would happen, so it becomes a very personal choice and realization of when. If our lifespan was 1000 years, I don’t think many would stand for decades or centuries. It does make me wonder what our vows would be if granted such a long life.
-This really made me think about them and what they meant, now mean, and could mean. I guess I'm saying maybe I need to rethink how I can honor them (maybe that's the right word) the best I can with the hand I got dealt while being fair to myself.
I am pleased to see your choice and acceptance of events. It was a good feeling to read how you had the same thoughts regarding not breaking someone’s heart and when you can move on, the not keeping W as plan B.
An interesting view I have is that moving on doesn’t exclude the possibility of dating EXW in the future, she is just part of the potential people you could possible date.
-very true, I can't see it happening now but you never know what tomorrow will bring.
