Husband cheated, left, trying to DB

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The boundary is to protect you from his behavior. Unfortunately without placing boundaries, you are enabling his behavior. I was an enabler and it prolonged my sitch. I was part of the problem.

If you read back through your threads, you will see how obsessed you are with his anger and why he is so disrespectful to you. I hate to be so blunt, but one of the reasons, is because you allow it.

Even in your response to me, you made it about him. If he doesn't have to face any consequences, he doesn't have a whole lot of motivation to change.

You do have choices in this.