LoneWlf, it does help me understand your position, but it doesn’t help me understand your wife’s position, which is what I was curious about.
Side note: she moved closer to your parents to take care of your dad after his stroke and you say she has given you fewer than 5 gifts? I guess acts of service is not your love language.
Me: 44 H: 44 Kids: 20, 16, 16, and 10 Together/Married: 22 years H announced he was emotionally detached and considering D: 4/4/16 H announced he is going to try to stay and reconnect: 5/1/16
