Or like on a night like tonight, where I haven’t heard from him and he hasn’t shown up, do I text him and say “will you be coming to see her?” Or do I just let it go and not reach out?
If you don't reach out, what would happen? Is it information you need to have?
No I definitely don’t need to have that info, I could careless if he comes honestly. I just meant because that would Show him I am not the one keeping him from her. He didn’t come tonight and I just don’t want him to turn it around like he didn’t come for any reason other than he’s clearly busy with other things and he CHOSE not to come.
But it’s almost 8pm now and the baby is about to go to sleep so I’m not reaching out. My main question is do I acknowledge his attitude he will undoubtedly have with me tomorrow, as if in some way I’ve hindered his time with her, when he so clearly didn’t show up tonight, but will manage to somehow lay the blame in my lap.
