He flips things and it’s really upsetting me and it’s almost as if he is getting away with laying blame on me I do not deserve.
He is laying it on you. We know he's wrong, but he doesn't. BUT: he's only getting away with it if you let him.
That’s kind of what I’m asking, how do I not let him get away with it if I’m trying to ignore his attitude and tone?
It’s kind of all one in the same in our sitch. Or at least how he’s being.
All I’ve said to him regarding the way he is treating me was last week and I said “is there a reason you’re being like this to me?” And he said he isn’t being mean to me but that he’s upset with me and has nothing to say to me and that we should stick to only communicating about our daughter like I told him..
And everyone in here said I shouldn’t have even asked him that, which I shouldn’t have. I’m just curious if I should acknowledge the tone and rudeness in a different way or just continue ignoring it. If I should acknowledge it suggestions are welcome. If I should ignore it I will continue doing so.
