Steve, well said! I do feel like the lighthouse, but what if he is under the impression that I am not standing here steady for him? What if he is now feeling like I want a divorce? When he said to me last Saturday that we needed to go to court and get divorce done, I said "Agreed. Do what you need to do"....and I Dont agree.
In other words, do I need to say anything to him to let him know I am here standing strong for our marriage, or do I just hope he still knows?
When we have discussion I do plan to tell him this isnt what I want but I wont stop it like I said.
