I feel liek with my GAL and all of this, my H is definitely under the impression I am seeing someone else. He said it to me last week during a tirade of angry texts, I posted on here, and then him telling me last night to stay somewhere else. I just feel like he may truly think I have met someone else, and I absolutely have not. And I dont think I necessarily want him to think that. And I really dont know how in his right mind he could think ive had time! But I just have a feeling that may be something he is thinking. Who knows.
Being mysterious with GAL is a GOOD thing. That is one of the side benefits of GAL, the WAS thinks, oh no, I may be losing her to someone else! That works to your advantage. Do not state emphatic denials. When he brings is up, just validate. (read the validation thread). "I'm sorry you feel that way."
Do not get into a back and forth, accusation-denial scenario.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
