Yea I wouldn't believe what she is saying for one stinking second. She's lying, covering up, feels bad kinda, but obviously not that bad or else she wouldn't have done it.

What actions are you prepared to take in response? You need to address this or accept that she will continue to walk all over you because you are letting her do that.

You don't need to be rude or overly emotional, but you can't be there for her while she's doing this. You guys aren't smoking joking buddies anymore. She can't be in your bedroom. She has desecrated that place. Start moving on. You're clearly very attached to her, but you'd be better to be detached. Work on that. Sorry to hear all this too.


H 34
W 29
BD 3/12/18
Divorce Busted Spring 19

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