Steve,

Thank you for that. That actually did make me feel a lot better about speaking to a Lawyer. He is definitely under the impression we can just sign paperwork and be done with it. I spoke with my boss who has been through a divorce and knows a little about my sitch. He said he has an amazing team of lawyers he will give me the info for.

Although it scares me and goes against what H and I have promised eachother, I do want knowledge.

Thank you!