Thanks guys.
It was a sleepless night to say the least.
No other conversations with W.
I also agree about the physical separation part. I know it would be terribly lonely and open up the possibility of a PA that much more possible. This in home thing just seems to keep me attached too much and she doesn't get to experience any type of life without me.
Do I think she is going to do it? I believe she will. I don't know exactly when, but we only have a few months left on our lease here so we have to move by then anyway. Doing it this way helps her by being able to say that she left me. I am going back and continuing to DB. All I can do. Oh, and prepare for the worst.


M51 W44
T21 M18
D14 S11
BD date 9/17
W filed 02/18
W withdrew petition following week
In house separation 03/18
In Limbo and DB'ing since 03/18
W is moving out by mid Nov 2018
A drawing up paperwork 11/18