Feeling lost, scared and wanting to fix this.

[Turbine]

Okay. I need to "pick your brain" about this past weekend.

I spent Saturday night at my D and S place. Unannounced to W. So while we are having breakfast I get two texts from W.
"Are you home?" and "Good morning"
In response I sent her a picture of our grandsons and their dog. I also responded with Maganda umaga (good morning) in Tagalog.
W response "Did you went to church?"
Me "Leaving in a few minutes."
W "Which church, in Bloomingdale?" and "Are you at Alex?"
Me "Chicago. Yes. Just took that picture of the boys."

I finished my breakfast, the cup of coffee and went to church. While I was driving there she called me. Since I was driving and cell phone use unless hands free is a ticket, I ignored her call. When I got to Church I sent "Missed your call because I was driving."

I saw her car after Church. Didn't approach her.

So here is the question. Since she has left the church, (by requesting a transfer and letting it expire, yet still attends) would dropping a tell to a minister be out of line? There are friends she has known longer who may have seen her. They don't know. I told them the truth when asked about my W. She was working and I had spent the night with kids.

I did move more of her stuff into the basement. So caring what she thinks is rapidly fading. She did return home last night from her home care job but I was sleeping and left this morning without interaction.

So... thoughts?