I'm 5 years into this. When does it go from sprint to marathon?

Well, I responded well. I think. Nothing in the cards. I feel that the W was feeling some pressure when I asked her what she had planned after church. When she said laundry. I knew to back off. I did and all is good.

M 53 W 54, M since 98
D15, D19
8/2013 discovered EA, W maintained contact with OM
until 10/14
7/2/17 W said she wanted S, 7/25/17 moved out of MBR
12/17 W says moving out 5/18, W still in home.