You need to stop asking her relationship questions. She is clearly full of anger and resentment towards you. Nothing is going to change that instantaneously. It is going to take a really long amount of time and a great deal of space, not to mention a metric ton of patience. You need to back off. Reread Sandi's rules. Learn them by heart. When you are in doubt of what to do, go back and read them. When you feel the urge to email or text or call her, write here instead and vent. Keep your communication with her brief and casual. Don't reply to all of her messages right away, in fact only reply if the message warrants a response.
Hang in there. You are in for a long ride.
W 34 Me 42 Married 7 years together 8 0 kids 1 beloved dog BD 4/6/2018 I moved out 4/7/2018 I moved back in alone 8/05/2018 I file 3/06/2019 D official 5/7/2019
