I can feel your frustration through your post. You are really doing well being that you have been here a short time. It is one of the main reasons that I have been following your sitch so closely.
Unfortunately I am unable to dedicate as much time as I would like to these forums that played a key role in my growth, so I will follow 2-3 situations from time to time.
Did you read the Stockdale Paradox?
Also, have you ever considered that your H's affair is like an addiction to him and you stand in the way? Perhaps that is why he is angry with you. Maybe because you are taking away his cake. Maybe because people that are addicted to something, will do anything to get their fix. Like steal, cheat and lie. The truth is, we just don't know for sure.
That's why detachment, boundaries and GAL are so important. I believe that you have a bright future, because you do follow advice.
Hey, how was church?
Me:45 ExW:48 M:04/97 3 Bombs & 2 ReCons 1st BD 11/10 D Finalized 4/20 D-16 S-14 Going in one more round when you don't think you can. That's what makes all the difference in life.~Rocky Balboa
