I’m definitely not bringing up divorce at all. He can take control of that whole discussion.

I just asked him if he minded when I get back if I work on a few things while he’s with the baby. He responded

H: sure
H: I can leave
H: this is your house

I responded: “ I just meant it would be nice to have an extra pair of hands while I work on a few orders.”
(I have an Etsy shop and have some orders to get done). He responds

H: yea, it’s not work it’s a hobby

I didn’t respond. I don’t even know what his intention of saying that is. This is becoming ridiculous on his end.