Hang in there Pain. One day at a time...one hour at a time...and sometimes 1 minute at a time.
I too know the pain of snooping. I was things that i wish to God i never saw at this point. I do my best to stay away from it at this point. I found the proof i needed and anything more at this point would be self inflicted torture.
Together:20 years M:3 years Me:40 WW:40 S15 A suspected:5/17 AC:5/18 BD:8/18 WW in full blown R w/ OM Still under same roof