Husband cheated, left, trying to DB

[burned]

I’m feeling you today. I haven’t caught a break in months. I can tell you for certain, though, that the last time I caught a break was BEFORE the last and final time I confronted W about OM.

Detachment would certainly help. Pretend your husband died, and think of what it would be like to start dating someone just like him, only in that scenario the OW is just an ex and she doesn’t matter anymore.

That’s the kind of relationship you would be rebuilding with your “new” H if/when things turn around.

But you’re doing a good job. And this is a good place to vent.