Shrike, all we have is your description of your sitch.

That said, Who in their right mind would want to be with a W like that? Honestly

Do you think that confronting her will stop it?

As long as you are willing to tolerate this kind of behavior, this is what you will get. Play a stupid game, get a stupid prize.

You will not get the results that you desire until you do what needs to be done. Go work on yourself. Forget W, at least for the time being. If I were you I would be working on retaining custody and kick this one to the curb. A healthy man will not allow themselves to be treated as such. Go work on you. Self-esteem, confidence, these are areas that you need to find help with. Seek IC.

But I also understand that love is blind. Until you, no will no longer tolerate this, you will never have the person's respect.
NEVER!

M 53 W 54, M since 98
D15, D19
8/2013 discovered EA, W maintained contact with OM
until 10/14
7/2/17 W said she wanted S, 7/25/17 moved out of MBR
12/17 W says moving out 5/18, W still in home.