I have been here before a few years back. I am once again separated from my wife for about 6 months now. I will update post with my current situation tonight.
I am trying to get some quick advice on confronting her with information that I found regarding her seeing/dating other men while we are separated. She has consistently denied seeing anyone else the entire time. I however snooped when I should not have and found pretty much everything I feared.
We had been seeing each other pretty regularly before that and I was actively trying to work on things with her. As she seemed very open to trying to make this work. It now just seems like she was cake eating the whole time.
Since finding the information, I have enacted sandi's rules completely, which I wish I had done from the start.
I am now faced with the question of confronting her with the information and whether it will even have any benefit. I am not willing to be in an open relationship with her.
I know that this is not much to go off of. But I would appreciate any help. And will do my best to clarify, as im sure there are questions.
Thank you all
M: 29 W: 28 D: 8 S:1 M: 10 T: 11 BD1: 8//15 (physically separate) Back together: 4/16 BD2: 3/18, physically separate 6/18) Here we are again.
