Hi Sansa, sorry about your sitch but happy you are here.
You need to relax S...Cadet’s first post has the tools that will let you work on YOURSELF. You need to do that. To release some pressure and create a much more quieter environment to share with your H. You need to use time wisely, as Cadet says.
Amoafwl posted some vital opinions. Please re-read those. Focus on what he says there.
