Wife showing signs of MLC

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It is tough to understand in the beginning
as with all things, we learn more over time

If it is MLC
You may notice
they usually dress different
buy expensive new toys
neglect the kids a bit
become self absorbed
might notice drinking where there was none
maybe a tattoo, hair change, hanging with younger crowd

We can focus on us and the kids
the kids need a stable available parent
we can get rest and sleep, eat well, therapy, support groups, church or Gym
or whatever grounds us meditation yoga ect

they usually spend a lot of money so keep a strong eye on the credit cards that have your name on them
they usually have affair partners

There is no easy fix here
it takes a lot of time
We wait it out especially in the beginning to see if there is improvement
sometimes people do reconcile
so its worth a bit of time to see which direction she goes
If she seeks therapy on her own this may help
usually MLC is unresolved childhood issues-

hang in there