Wife showing signs of MLC

[marina7]

Fin,
Sorry you are here but Welcome to New world of MLC.

I see your story alot like mines.
I did have a EA I even flew out to see the EA but never acted on it.
It was weird now that I read stories I see I was in a MLC I don't remember nothing
From 2014 till beginning of 2016 but I had a death experience I had a seizure
abd woke up in hospital was in como for 2 days W told me she thought she lost me

I blame myself for a long time but with great advice here I realized is not your fault.
Nothing you could have done differently this would had happened with
You or without you. Unfortunately there's no yes or no answer to if W will
snap out of it. Only time will tell.

Just get lots of rest, go to therapy and be the best dad in the world and be
the W fell in love with.

I am going on 1yr 6 months and it feels like 10yrs already. Is dragging but
I finally stop analyzing W process. I finally started living life without W
Is freaking hard I won't lie to you. Get as much support you can.

Not sure your religious but there is divorce groups and divorce groups 4 kids.
I go once a week with kids. I go to therapy,

Remember you will have bad days as good days what I realized is.
That is ok to cry, is ok to have a bad day is ok to feel broken as
long you can over come it.

It will take you a while as you read my thread I have my days there's days
I give up on W there's days I am willing to stand but there's days
that I ask myself can we overcome this. You will have many emotions
And is ok to feel that way. You are mourning your W.

So get plenty of rest, protect your finances and take care of yourself first
W is in her world and if you remember MLC world is crazy I hardly remember
mines is like 2yrs past me and boom I realized I loved my W so much. So let her go