I know that we got along with our co-parenting. We only argued once, because I updated my FB profile. I remember that vividly.
What's more important, is it allowed her relationship to fizzle out and for her to see that the grass wasn't greener. It really wasn't any of my concern though. I was detached. Have you read drop the rope analogy? I know Sandi used to post it.
Something jumped out of me about what you posted. What I gathered, is that you fear that you don't have enough time. Is that accurate? Is that what causes you anxiety about next week?
Me:45 ExW:48 M:04/97 3 Bombs & 2 ReCons 1st BD 11/10 D Finalized 4/20 D-16 S-14 Going in one more round when you don't think you can. That's what makes all the difference in life.~Rocky Balboa