Still no clue if he plans to come tonight but I am not going to ask him. I am just going to go on with my night. It will hurt me if he doesnt because I know he will be with OW, but I will still have a good night with Daughter and its his loss of time with her, not mine. Shes the most important thing to me in ALL of this. by far
There you go. You should go about your plans tonight. If he notifies you last minute, kindly let him know that you have plans tonight and will not be available this evening.
FWIW, as difficult as my sitch was, I am thankful for going through it, because my W and I both needed some humbling and needed a lot of growth. We are better for it. Seems surreal to believe we even went through it. Even if we wouldn't have reconciled, it helped me with self-improvement. Trying to help you see the silver lining.
Don't look at this as an obstacle. Look at it as an opportunity.
If you get an opportunity, go to Youtube and search "Rocky Balboa Motivational Speech". It is Rocky talking to his son. It applies. I love that scene.
Me:45 ExW:48 M:04/97 3 Bombs & 2 ReCons 1st BD 11/10 D Finalized 4/20 D-16 S-14 Going in one more round when you don't think you can. That's what makes all the difference in life.~Rocky Balboa
