Husband cheated, left, trying DB 3

[Dtrmned]

Re-read Sandi's 37 rules everyday!

Remember what R2C said about the hard path being the easy path.
This isn't easy. If it was easy, we wouldn't be here struggling how to deal with our situations.

I am still struggling and trying to get better each day. I haven't truly had a conversation with my W outside of our kids, finance, errand stuff in months. She came to me today wanting to talk about our kids and the one that is struggling. I listened, validated, gave constructive input and left it with her thinking and we are going to get together later as to how we will attack this together. I think it was good since most convos about anything would eventually lead to an R talk. I didn't let it go there. I stated a couple of times that this has nothing to do with our MR this is about our child and how to get them back on track.

And the response from the person who said that divorce wouldn't affect the children "She is in a bad situation with our MR situation and I think it will be better once we separate" I will leave you with this:

BELIEVE NOTHING THEY SAY AND ONLY HALF OF WHAT THEY DO.

Nothing they say makes sense, but it is their actions that will give you an idea of what they are truly thinking. My W has been threatening D for many, many months. After her initial filing and withdrawal in Febrauary you know what has happened...nothing.