You have started to work on improving on how you interact with him, and he can sense that there is a shift in you being less reactive.
You asked a question about detachment yesterday, and I wanted to chime in. I can't seem to find it now.
Hey LITB, this was the question: Question to all my “detached” people out there. I’m going to try to fake it till I make it. With every text he sends, I will start to think to myself, if I were detached from him, how would I respond to this.
My answers keep coming up similar to if I didn’t care or was indifferent. Same with treating him like a cashier. I would probably be nice and say things like “no problem” or “maybe next time”, things like that bc I wouldn’t really be worried about it. I’m starting to think to just stick with responses like “ok” unless given a yes or no question like Steve says.
Since he is not speaking to me in person now, our only interaction opportunities are via his texts. So I would like to be certain I am getting those right and DBing bc that is our main way of communication
