Amazing that other than point H) I bet 99.9% of the WS described in this forum do the exact same thing. There must be a chemical released in a cheating spouses brain that causes these exact same actions in them.

H-50
W-48
T-19
M -18
S23, S14
BD - 5/9/2018
OM discovered 5/10/2018

In house sep - 8/18/2018
Rope drop 2/15/2019
R'ing since 3/15/2019