Originally Posted by Turbine
Complains I ignored her, don't have common interests, don't give her flowers or gifts.

This is interesting to me. Have you read the Love Languages? Sounds like hers may be gifts and quality time. How about you? How do you receive love? How do you give love?

Originally Posted by Turbine
I haven't try to learn her language or cultture, don't like her food.

Its interesting that after 31 years, you havent made this kind of effort. Why not?


What would be different if she were to change her mind? It's easy to say "I would appreciate her more". But what would you actually change? What are you doing now to grow?