Husband cheated, left, trying DB 3

[LANE777]

Kech, seems like your reliving every day. Reread what Blu sent you. Basically you need to quit dwelling on you WH. Hes wayward and is not thinking clearly. Don't let the little things bother you so much. Like when he acts angry or mumbles goodbye. He's messing with you. Trying to get a reaction or make you feel bad. And its working. Were you able to get a schedule? If not, I'd sit down and write one up, take a picture and text it to him. I know this dude is driving you crazy. But you can't let every little thing bother you. Just brush it off. I don't think hes man enough to do D right now . He acts like hes to busy. But dont push him. Back off on everything you do. Usually things calm down. As far as OW. Who cares. She's worthless and her day will come. For now, like everyone has said. Focus on you and the baby. Dont create unnecessary drama for yourself. Dont stoop down to that level. When hes around be nice and civil, dont be all sweet and act like nothing is wrong. Show him strength and that you're going to move forward with or without him. Hes lost his way and its going to be a while. But I'm telling you, that bar lifestyle is miserable and depressing. You don't need that in your home. If he was normal before, this life will get old. He will eventually get in trouble with it or keep being miserable. His choice. And consequences will follow. Including losing you! You didn't lose him, he is definitely losing you. His loss. Keep it up.