Originally Posted by kech
Thank you R2c, I will look into those posts. Coach’s statement about H being mad to get what he wants, woah. That’s very interesting! I’m saving that. . I appreciate how much help you’ve provided me through this. Before I lose you for 10 days, what would your suggestion be if he texts me tonight to say he won’t be able to make it to see D?


Lots of choices:

1) Perfect

2)I am sorry to hear that.

3) OK

Save this one to say after he "Cancels" his obligations MULTIPLE TIMES:
4)When you say you want to spend time with daughter and continually make other things more of a priority in your life......


Or the best:

Wait until it is the time he is to be there:
W:"Where are you? You said you would be here at X:XX"
H:BLA BLA BLA texted you earlier
W"O sorry, I didn't see that. I was busy"



"What is best for my kids is best for me"
Amor Fati
Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712