Husband cheated, left, trying DB 3

[Ready2Change]

Hi Kech,

I will not be able to post for the next ten days. Any advise I would be giving to you would be based off of these two posters:


PDT posts

The link takes you to page 50....Ya, there are 50 posts listed per page and 321 page..... Browse this wise mans advice..He guided many back to a reconciled marriage.


Here is a link to a wise man that got his wife back:
Coach

Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.

I randomly picked one of his posts. Have you heard Steve tell you this:

Your H controls you by getting upset. You trained him that for him to get his way all he has to do is get upset/sad/angry and you will get right in line. You will defer your own feelings to suck up to him. You are not responsible for his feelings.

When I return:

I hope to hear that you have spoken with several lawyers.
I hope to hear less mention of H and his behavior.
I hope to hear H is no longer welcome in you home.
I hope to hear the you told MIL the name of OW and that there is no hope in save your marriage if H is involved with OW.
I hope to hear that H is EXTREMELY angry that you told MIL the TRUTH about his behavior before he spins her lies as well.


I wish you well this week. My thoughts will be with you, and I will pray for you and your family during this most difficult time.

You can handle this.

HUGS

R2C