Your going through something similar to me. Together 23 years. W is MLC. Except she has no intentions of leaving until after our lease expires in 2 years. At least thats what she told me from the beggining. Things have gradually gotten worse for me. BD 12/6/17. Right now I have pretty much gone dark the last 2 weeks and havent seen a change in behavior. We are like 2 ships passing by at night. Havent said a word to each other in days.