I liken snooping to the temptation of touching the red-hot pot sitting on the stove. You know you shouldn't touch it. You know you're going to get burned doing it, and it's going to be extremely painful, but you do it anyway because it's there. And...OUCH. It hurts and hurts BAD.
Then, you learn to never touch the hot pot again. Or you may say, "I touched it for too long. If I don't touch it as long, it won't hurt as bad." So you touch it again, not as long, but you touch it nonetheless. And guess what? It still hurts! It may be worse!
You learn a little more after every time you touch the stove to not do it because all it will do is cause pain. Eventually you're not going to touch the hot pot, no matter what, because you know how much it will hurt if you do.
I liken snooping to that analogy.
Looking into phone records, text messages, eavesdropping on phone calls, all painful. All times in which we need to step away. We feel the heat and we get away from it. Not get drawn towards it.
