Matrix, great advice from Steve, Neffer and LH19. You're at a critical junction, stick to your DB'ing for now and don't believe anything coming out of her mouth. She has to show you commitment through actions. Be receptive but cautious. Expect her to waffle between pursuing and pushing you away for quite a while. If after a couple of weeks she still seems receptive to recon, then look into MC and Retrouvaille. Good luck!
