Hey buddy, Good to see your still kicking. Sorry to hear on the Grandmther. If I would be so bold as to say: let her push the divorce as much as she wants. I just dont want to see you caught in a mess like Im in. These things take so long anyway that you wont have to suffer like I am trying to "get it done". The further along you are, in 6 months the better in my book. I think you will reach my state of mind soon Merrick. Maybe your closer already than I think? Anyway take care, I'll be in touch....God Bless, eddy KOFTGF