M,

As I stated to a poster earlier I have been on these boards for almost 4 years and can read these sitches very clearly. This is more then likely manipulation on her part to ease your mind so she can continue to cake eat.

Your buddy and her will most likely take this A further underground. When a woman has built a wall around her heart over the years, the wall does not come down overnight.

You seem to be willing to take the blame for your M being the way that it is right now. Can I ask you what you think you did?

I really hope I am wrong but tread very lightly.